Jane McGill, an editor of the Omaha Central High Register publication wrote a very insightful and informative article on race relations and advanced placement courses (https://www.omahacentralregister.com/9546/news/the-honors-gap-how-centrals-advanced-classes-perpetuate-inequality-among-students/). This article resonates with what I experienced and had heard of many times before. I actually wrote a Public Pulse letter to the Omaha World-Herald well over a decade about this problem. However, too often the focus is on race when cultural distinctions are coming into play at a very young age. By the age of 10, the differences between groups begin to emerge and just keep on growing.
Many White parents start drilling down hard on their children to accelerate in school, and everything else. If their child had a weakness, they would help their child to overcome it. Where their child had a talent, they would feed, and encourage it. The focus on higher education is also very strong among many White people. I was stunned to learn my sixth-grade fellow White students had already started applying for grants for colleges and universities when I had not even given a thought to such education.
For many minorities, their parents just simply presume their child cannot excel and other people feed into such low expectations, especially Omaha public schools. For the child to overcome this is quite difficult. I have personally witnessed this and it is a bit heartbreaking. A dad says he is a truck driver and sees no problem with his son becoming a truck driver. Yes, he wants his son to attend school but expects little more. What do you do? Do you say “Hey, it sucks to be a truck driver when your kid could be a doctor?”. Of course not. But this is largely why minority students end up in remedial English courses. In fact, this is why more and more White students are ending up in remedial courses. Adults must expect more but they are surrendering to the comfort of their children.
Black people have lots of skills but many are biased or resigned to being laborers. Black leaders do know how to negotiate, but they really need to question just what they are negotiating for. How bad is Black leadership in this country? The NAACP is claiming Florida is dangerous for Black people (https://www.cbsnews.com/news/naacp-travel-advisory-florida-says-state-hostile-to-black-americans/). How misguided and partisan can they get? I assure you, no matter what the controversies may be about Disney, if your kid wants to go to Disney, you are going to Disney. Screw the NAACP!
This problem comes down to the very local Omaha level. Recently, a statue of a White sailor kissing a White woman was put up at Memorial Park. While some are upset with it being about sexual assault, I was perturbed by why the heck is a sailor statue being presented in the most landlocked state of the Union which is the farthest from any ocean being put up in Omaha? Was the sailor an admiral in Nebraska’s Navy (https://history.nebraska.gov/great-navy-of-the-state-of-nebraska/)? Maybe I should request Governor Pillen to grant him such admiralship.
So, in front of this statue of a “White male sexually assaulting a White woman” was a crew of men patching the road with asphalt, maintaining the civilization we live in and enjoy. They were apparently contracted by the City of Omaha which makes a point of awarding minority contracts. They were attractive, polite, and hard-working men. And, all of them were so deeply Black, they could not possibly pass the “brown bag” test (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brown_Paper_Bag_Test) let alone a black bag test. If they had laid down on the asphalt, they would have become completely invisible to all unless they bared their white teeth. The contrast between them and the statue was quite stark and unnerving. However, this was not racism but a matter of two different cultures operating under two completely different orbits and expectations in the same reality.
There should be more minority teachers but this is not going to happen if minorities are happy with being laborers laying asphalt and don’t put more expectations on each other as well upon those who think they are weak and incompetent. At the same time, when anyone of any background encounters a person of a different background and wants to help: be not only polite but engage in uplifting small talk. Also, when you see someone with talent, encourage them to go further. When you see someone with a weakness, help them overcome it. Yet, many people, especially White people, have not figured this out and they simply blame racism to enjoin the "amen" of the elitist Black choir and simply ignore the differences in cultures which can be overcome. The end result is White people surrender to such low expectations.
Public schools simply do not solve this problem. Many want the government to intervene and "do something" but at this stage, the culture has to change. Yes, State Senator Justin Wayne is right to support school choice, but what happens if Black families and other minorities are apathetic to the opportunity? How does anyone propose to overcome this? Individuals must identify the problem and alleviate it.
All of this is hard work. Utopia is not an option, hard work is in abundance, and ignorance is a prolific pollution of the mind which requires great maintenance. Life is not easy. To help break through the problem, people should read biographies, not just of their favorite people but of the people they hate most. Merely reading helps build empathy, tolerance, and the ability to reach out to people. This applies to children too.
But there is more to this. If you think your child is confronting racism, make race matter less. Cut back on television and screen time. Tell them they cannot wear t-shirts unless they attend to break a sweat such as sports. Yep, button-ups, and polo shirts only for school, church, work, and ball games. Have them scheduled to be reading books 30 minutes a day. These sound simple but they can be hard to implement but the impact on the child will be noticeable as the weeks and months go by. They learn to respond to expectations and to make a point of improving themselves instead of slacking off. They may still end up putting asphalt on the road, which is fine, but they will have a better understanding of the world and the expectations of others. Simply, you have to expect more to get more.
Andrew,
It's not "rhetoric" to state historical FACTS. There was NEVER any orchestrated action to commit genocide and slavery of Irish people, Spanish people, Portuguese people, Russians, Italians, Greeks, Iranians, Polish people, Norwegians or Swedes. You "spew" rhetoric denying a clearly well-orchestrated lily-Whiteness that has perpetually and ultimately controlled all aspects of the United States of America. Why do you ignore that White-owned newspapers and elected officials put bounties on killing Native Americans (The only good Indian is a dead Indian!), but did not put bounties for killing Irish people, Spanish people, Portuguese people, Russians, Italians, Greeks, Iranians, Polish people, Norwegians or Swedes? Why do you ignore that White-owned newspapers and elected officials put bounties on killing escaped slaves (Hang the niggers!), Black people, but did not put bounties for killing Irish people, Spanish people, Portuguese people, Russians, Italians, Greeks, Iranians, Polish people, Norwegians or Swedes? Where's your "rhetoric" to re-write history, Andrew?
Answer this question, Andrew: Given that race-based genocide, oppression, and discrimination against all people of color began prior to the inception of the United States of America on July 4, 1776 and continued uninterrupted thereafter, on what specific year and date did White people, specifically "elite," politically powerful and affluent White men, relinquish their ill-gotten wealth, power, and control to enable people of color, and women, with "fair and just" access to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness? When?
Answer this question, Andrew: If the overwhelming majority of White people believe the genocide of Native Americans to be unjust, that the theft of Native American lands unjust, then why don't White people return all lands and related properties back to the Native American tribes? Well, Andrew???
It’s a total waste of time to respond to the callousness or stupidity of White people who act in denial of or indifference to the FACT of voluminous race-based atrocities committed by their ancestors, which has allowed their descendants to prosper at the direct expense of people of color.
It’s a total waste of time to respond to the callousness or stupidity of White people, especially White men, who now consider themselves a "victim" for ultimately being in control of and responsible for the overwhelming majority of acts of racism and sexism - while never fixing the problem.
It’s a total waste of time to respond to the callousness or stupidity of White people, especially White men, who believe systemic racism and systemic sexism no longer exists, simply because Barack Obama became POTUS and Oprah Winfrey's a billionaire, while constantly ignoring the fact that with every generation there has always been a "token negro" who's been "allowed" by the great White oppressor to do a little more, to have a little more success, etc., such as Madame C.J. Walker (1867-1919), Stepin Fetchit (1902-1985), Sidney Poitier (1927+), Richard Pryor (1940-2005), Eddie Murphy (1961+), etc. Again, these "famous" people of color only functioned as tokens, because they NEVER acquired or held the power or wealth of comparable White males and some White females. Conversely, in "Hollywood" ultimate control has been and continues to be primarily dictated by White Jewish men. As published in the LA Times article, "How deeply Jewish is Hollywood? C'mon." When the studio chiefs took out a full-page ad in the Los Angeles Times a few weeks ago to demand that the Screen Actors Guild settle its contract, the open letter was signed by: News Corp. President Peter Chernin (Jewish), Paramount Pictures Chairman Brad Grey (Jewish), Walt Disney Co. Chief Executive Robert Iger (Jewish), Sony Pictures Chairman Michael Lynton (surprise, Dutch Jew), Warner Bros. Chairman Barry Meyer (Jewish), CBS Corp. Chief Executive Leslie Moonves (so Jewish his great uncle was the first prime minister of Israel), MGM Chairman Harry Sloan (Jewish) and NBC Universal Chief Executive Jeff Zucker (mega-Jewish). If either of the (Jewish) Weinstein brothers had signed, this group would have not only the power to shut down all film production but to form a minyan with enough Fiji water on hand to fill a mikvah." Source: Los Angeles Times, December 19, 2008, by JOEL STEIN
P.S. "It’s not anti-Semitic to make a statement of fact; it’s anti-Semitic to imply that there’s something wrong with it." Rachel Shukert
It’s a total waste of time to respond to the stupidity of White people, especially White men, who act in denial of or indifference to acts of racism and sexism which boldly continue to this very day.
The "past" is relevant due to the hypocrisy of "elite," politically powerful and affluent White men. In 1776, these educated, slave-owning White-men created a government that said, consistent with the religious beliefs, that humans are all equal in God's eye. However, contrary to what they wrote and the pseudo-religious beliefs, they intentionally and successfully engineered a "new" nation that mirrored same character and scope of racism and oppression practiced by their British King, which even today continues to exist on racism, oppression, and discrimination. These "elite," politically powerful and affluent White men have sustained their privilege for the past 247 years, and in the absence of another civil war or invasion from Russia, China, or aliens from the planet Mars, etc., they'll continue to do so.
Again, you "spew" rhetoric denying a clearly well-orchestrated lily-Whiteness that has perpetually and ultimately controlled all aspects of the United States of America. Stop White-washing facts to present an alternative reality that's more "palatable" to White people, Andrew.
White people did this: https://youtu.be/8tEuaj4h8dw
It's not rhetoric, it's a fact.
Again, the "world" is NOT the issue. The "issue" is the FACT that educated White men intentionally wrote, "We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal," while simultaneously committing genocide of Native Americans and slavery and genocide of Black people. Spain, Portugal, France, the "Middle East," Asia, and Eastern Europe were NOT involved in the writing, signing, and execution of the U.S. Declaration of Independence, U.S. Constitution, etc.
Again, the constitutional "expectation" that "we" are all created equal has NEVER been realized for the overwhelming majority of Black people and other people of color, and women, and even worse, equality will NEVER will be realized as researched and reported by:
a. New York Times article published on September 9, 2020, "Faces of Power: 80% Are White, Even as U.S. Becomes More Diverse," that validates the existence of systemic racism and systemic sexism. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2020/09/09/us/powerful-people-race-us.html
b. As researched by Derenoncourt, Chi Hyun Kim, Kuhn, and Schularick in their March 8, 2021 report, “The Racial Wealth Gap, 1860 - 2020,” the wealth gap between Blacks and Whites has never been abated, has only increased significantly; and if present trends in the data continue, the racial wealth gap is headed to a steady state with average White wealth at least five times greater than average Black wealth - even through 2260! http://www.tripoetry.com/BEING-BLACK/FACTS/RACIAL-WEALTH-GAP/RACIAL-WEALTH-GAP-1860-2020.pdf
c. The people who ultimately control and make all the rules, laws, etc. (White men), also ultimately control and make all exceptions to the rules; and there's no history of White men sharing power or control, just ask Native Americans about broken treaties and stolen lands; ask the Republic of Lakotah (https://youtu.be/8tEuaj4h8dw); and there's no realistic projection that White men are going to give-up power. http://tripoetry.com/Letters/reynoldsrap-wealth.htm
Finally, your comment: We can choose to be people of peace if we have God's peace in our hearts no matter what is happening around us.
God's peace? THAT'S A BUNCH OF RELIGIOUS CRAP. All "organized religions," especially Christians, Jews, and Muslims, function as hypocrites; causing and sustaining more wars and murders than they've ever prevented. Read this - http://tripoetry.com/Letters/reynoldsrap-ukraine.htm
'Nuff said.